Brad Rhame

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Lessons Learned (Part 6)

The first time I went to apply at a nutritional store I was dressed nicely when I went in for an application.  When I went to return it, I was dressed for the gym to show that I was into working out and getting in shape.  I would not advise this to anyone in today’s time.  Always look presentable and polished.  There wasn’t anything at this job that came easy for me.  There was so much to learn about the herbs, vitamins, minerals, sports supplements and other products.  The manager, who was also one of the owners, spent an entire week walking me around the store and going over each product.  At first, I thought I could just remember what he said by him showing me the product and telling me about it.  That did not work as I thought it would.  I am definitely the type that needs to write it down and memorize it.  I remember pulling out this thick book on all the products we sold and some we didn’t, and then going through it page by page about every supplement we sold.  There was so much to learn, but day by day I learned something from the book, my boss and even the customers. 

Some of the people who would come into our store had a real passion for certain supplements and would pass their knowledge onto me.  I had many long conversations with customers who could spout off all the benefits to taking certain pills, powders, or drinks.  A lot of what I learned I still remember to this day.  In life everyone you meet can mentor you to some degree or another.  I spent so much time learning how supplements improve the body.  I also spent so much of my money trying out all these supplements.  To say I was a human guinea pig is being nice.  My body did change and change rapidly.  When I went back to school after the summer, classmates were asking if I was on steroids.  I would grin and say, “Not at all.  I just finally learned how to change my body through proper diet, rest and exercise.”  I’m not sure all of them believed me, but it was the truth.  I still take supplements to this day, because I just don’t think I can get everything I need in my daily diet.

After being an employee for a while the owner decided to make me a manager, because he was opening another one in a city down the road.  I took him up on his offer and found out what it was like to have to order product, hire employees and have the final conversation with upset customers.  I know I didn’t do everything right at the job, but I did cut my teeth there in a lot of ways that made me better down the road.  I’m grateful for that position and time in my life where I was challenged. 

I also was lucky enough to meet the other owner who impacted my life spiritually, outside the business.  You never would have known all the money he had by the truck he drove, the clothes he wore, and the way he made you feel important when he spoke with you.  I was truly impressed by him and his humility.  Another lesson learned.

Life Lessons:

Always look presentable and polished.

Write it down.

Everyone in life can be a mentor.

Always keep your humility.

Fighting Greatness – by Brad Rhame

What is one of the first things we do when we get out of bed? Yes…we head towards the bathroom, but what is one of the main things we do once we are in the bathroom? It has to do with a mirror. Yes, that’s right. We look at ourselves. And why do you suppose that is? Are we hoping to have perfect hair? What about sleep lines from our pillows? Are we hoping those don’t show up?

I think the answer lies much deeper and truer than those questions ask. I think we are hoping to see someone amazing. We are hoping that today picks up where yesterday left off (if yesterday was a great day). Or we are hoping that today is completely different and altogether better. Either way, we want today to be great. And most likely we want to be a factor in its greatness.

Whether we admit it or not, each of us wants to be great. We want to know our lives matter or make a difference. Life has a way of bringing us back to an all too common reality. My question though is this, “Is reality real?” If we wake up everyday hoping today is the day where we succeed, win, achieve more or whatever your goal might be, then doesn’t it make sense that we were made for more…?

Why do some people impact the world at such a young age and others do not? Could it be our drive? I wouldn’t put money on that one. What about our personality type? Maybe, but I would hold out for something else.

If I had to take an educated guess I would say passion. And then, what is our “Why”. If you believe in something with every fiber of your being and have a reason for it coming to fruition, then and only then can you make it happen. Nothing happens without action. Where there is no belief and action…dreams do not become reality.

Bruce Lee changed martial arts forever, because of his belief in a better fighting philosophy. Jesus Christ changed the world, because of his love for humanity. Both died before they saw the age of 35! There is still time for you to realize your dreams and become the person you were created to be.

From now on, when you get out of bed trust yourself to who you want to be and not who you might currently think you are. Surround yourself with positive people. Read books and magazines that inspire you. Keep learning and growing. Always be a student and self educate yourself. Exercise your body and brain. Create something new. Go somewhere new. Try something new.

But most of all…Stop fighting your current fear of greatness and who you were really meant to be. Dare yourself to fail. Learn from your mistakes and press on. We are waiting for you to change the world!

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