Brad Rhame

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Lessons Learned (Part 6)

The first time I went to apply at a nutritional store I was dressed nicely when I went in for an application.  When I went to return it, I was dressed for the gym to show that I was into working out and getting in shape.  I would not advise this to anyone in today’s time.  Always look presentable and polished.  There wasn’t anything at this job that came easy for me.  There was so much to learn about the herbs, vitamins, minerals, sports supplements and other products.  The manager, who was also one of the owners, spent an entire week walking me around the store and going over each product.  At first, I thought I could just remember what he said by him showing me the product and telling me about it.  That did not work as I thought it would.  I am definitely the type that needs to write it down and memorize it.  I remember pulling out this thick book on all the products we sold and some we didn’t, and then going through it page by page about every supplement we sold.  There was so much to learn, but day by day I learned something from the book, my boss and even the customers. 

Some of the people who would come into our store had a real passion for certain supplements and would pass their knowledge onto me.  I had many long conversations with customers who could spout off all the benefits to taking certain pills, powders, or drinks.  A lot of what I learned I still remember to this day.  In life everyone you meet can mentor you to some degree or another.  I spent so much time learning how supplements improve the body.  I also spent so much of my money trying out all these supplements.  To say I was a human guinea pig is being nice.  My body did change and change rapidly.  When I went back to school after the summer, classmates were asking if I was on steroids.  I would grin and say, “Not at all.  I just finally learned how to change my body through proper diet, rest and exercise.”  I’m not sure all of them believed me, but it was the truth.  I still take supplements to this day, because I just don’t think I can get everything I need in my daily diet.

After being an employee for a while the owner decided to make me a manager, because he was opening another one in a city down the road.  I took him up on his offer and found out what it was like to have to order product, hire employees and have the final conversation with upset customers.  I know I didn’t do everything right at the job, but I did cut my teeth there in a lot of ways that made me better down the road.  I’m grateful for that position and time in my life where I was challenged. 

I also was lucky enough to meet the other owner who impacted my life spiritually, outside the business.  You never would have known all the money he had by the truck he drove, the clothes he wore, and the way he made you feel important when he spoke with you.  I was truly impressed by him and his humility.  Another lesson learned.

Life Lessons:

Always look presentable and polished.

Write it down.

Everyone in life can be a mentor.

Always keep your humility.

Lessons Learned (Part 6)

The summer after my freshman year of college, I started hitting the gym again. My mother mentioned to me one day that the supplement store down the street was hiring. I didn’t know what all was involved in working at a place like that but thought I would at least give it a try. The first time I went to apply at a nutritional store I was dressed nicely when I went in for an application.  When I went to return it, I was dressed for the gym to show that I was into working out and getting in shape.  I would not advise this to anyone in today’s time.  Always look presentable and polished.  The manager asked me a few questions and then gave me a sheet of paper with some math problems, to see if I could do simple math to run a cash register. That was probably the only thing that was easy for me.

The next thing I knew was he was hiring me. At this job, there wasn’t anything that came easy for me.  There was so much to learn about the herbs, vitamins, minerals, sports supplements and other products.  The manager, who was also one of the owners, spent an entire week walking me around the store and going over each product.  At first, I thought I could just remember what he said about each product by him showing me the product and telling me about it.  That did not work as I thought it would.  I am definitely the type that needs to write it down and memorize it.  I remember pulling out this thick nutritional book on all types of products, some we sold and some we didn’t. This became my bible of the supplement world. I remember going through it page by page about every supplement we sold.  There was so much to learn, but day by day I learned something from that book, my boss, the magazines we sold, and even some of the customers. 

Some of the people who would come into our store had a real passion for certain supplements and would pass their knowledge onto me.  I had many long conversations with customers who could spout off all the benefits to taking certain pills, powders, or drinks.  A lot of what I learned I still remember to this day.  In life everyone you meet can mentor you to some degree or another.  I spent so much time learning how supplements improve the body.  I also spent so much of my money trying out all these supplements!  To say I was a human guinea pig would be an understatement.  My body did change and change rapidly.  When I went back to school after the summer, classmates were asking if I was on steroids.  I would grin and say, “Not at all.  I just finally learned how to change my body through proper diet, rest and exercise.”  I’m not sure all of them believed me, but it was the truth.  I still take supplements to this day, because I just don’t think I can get everything I need in my daily diet.

After being an employee for a while the owner decided to make me a manager, because he was opening another one in another city down.  I took him up on his offer and found out what it was like to have to order product, hire employees and have the final conversation with upset customers.  I know I didn’t do everything right at the job, but I did cut my teeth there in a lot of ways that made me better down the road.  I’m grateful for that position and time in my life where I was challenged. 

I also was lucky enough to meet the other owner who was quite a bit older. He impacted my life spiritually outside the business, along with being a good businessman.  A few years later, I would go to bible school, where he helped me financially. After graduating, he invited me to a couple of men’s retreats that I really enjoyed. You never would have known all the money he had by the truck he drove, the clothes he wore, and the way he treated everyone like an equalI was truly impressed by him and his humility. You just never know whose path you’re going to cross and how they will impact your life.

Life Lessons:

Always look presentable and polished.

Write it down.

Everyone can be a mentor.

Chance or Opportunity?

Many times the word “Chance” could be associated with…Scary, Losing, Pain or something Negative.

Opportunity, on the other hand, could be associated with having more or doing more. Positive feelings come when we think of the word “Opportunity”.

Everything you try or do on a daily basis requires a certain mindset to attempt it in the first place.

You dress yourself, because someone once taught you how and now you do it.

When we realize that we are capable of learning new things, then we will attempt more in life.

There isn’t anyone who has done everything on their own. We all need help and someone to teach us. This is why it is important to realize that anyone from a young child to someone at the end of their life can teach us. Sure, we would all like to have that one mentor who walks with us throughout our lives and teaches us the way of the world. The reality is that everyone is our mentor.

What could you learn from standing behind someone in line?

What could you learn from watching a kindergarten class perform a school play?

What could the sales clerk teach you from your interaction with them?

What could you learn from the way the person in the commercial responded or acted?

Our teachers are all around us. We have to be willing to use all of our senses to grasp what is happening around us every second of every day.

So many people do not try something new, because it is out of their comfort zone. Having a routine is nice, but sometimes that is also where depression comes in. We start looking at our lives and realizing that it is boring or that we could be doing so much more.

It is in those times that we need to reevaluate where we are and where we are going. We must be willing to change the set of the sail and allow the wind to blow us in a different direction.

How many times do you watch people doing things and think, “I could do that!” or “I wish I would try to do something like that.”

You can! Just make up your mind to do it!

Maybe that is the purchase of a new skateboard or sewing machine. Maybe it a gym membership or an airplane ticket. Maybe it is simply driving to a new destination for a hike or photography session.

Some of the things we want to do cost more money and some of them might actually save us more money. Others could lose us money or make us a lot more money!

Life is about LIVING!

Look at life as an opportunity. It is a mindset. We have the ability to change our minds whenever we want.

Go out and change your life for the better!

Be the example that others need to see, so they will do the same.

You won’t regret it…I promise

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